Friday, January 21, 2011

ShukraGuzaar hun main USKA

AAJ fir kuchh yaad aaya aaj fir kuchh likhne ki tammana ki

Aaj mera ek month hone waala hai US mein . To be frank i feel blessed that i got the opportunity to experience this environment at such an early stage even before completing my undergraduate , few get this kind of an opportunity and few get to see all this . We are so busy in our day today work that we forget to thank GOD for what he has made us or rather helped us in making ourselves that we are in such a position . Really today i wanted to thank GOD for all He has given me whether it be stamina, will power , resilience ,and all the loads of opportunities till now because I know the kind of condition i was in, 10 years back , no one could have ever thought, except me and my parents though, that i could some day reach here .

People say one should not remember his/her bad days and should move on in life but frankly speaking i have lived on till now only keeping hold of those dreadful memories . They have always helped me realize that “if i can live those days i can come over any damn thing “

I thought i would never share these things but that i am no more in college and am sure that there is no chance of being subject to that disgraceful “pity” that i hated ...i think i can carry on .....Sorry Guys i am not that good with emotions....never got a chance to .....

There’s one thing i hate and thats “helpnessness” , helplessness to do my part ,when i want to do something but my health doesn’t allow, this is the worst feeling i can ever have in life. AND I HAD IT AGAIN .........

I went to class today though i was not in a position to but still i wanted to go to a class that most people try to avoid lol.... My main aim was just to get accustomed to lectures in the first two hours and then be prepared for the lecture i love but Life has its own ways . I did all the lectures except the one i wanted to do . i know you might be thinking “why is this guy getting emotional over just one lecture when he claims that he is not at all emotional” .

Its Not about one lecture guys , lecture was just an example to cite ,

My main aim was to convey to u all that Thank GOD if u have sound health , because you don’t realise but He has Given u ALL . Its now upon u how to make it ...

I have had over 52000 medicines in 10 years and only i know how !!!!!!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

RaAhEiN Raastey AuR AnJaaNe HuMsafaR

“Aaj fir kuchh yaad aaya , Aaj fir kuchh likhne ki tamanna hui “

I have always , in my life given priority to the “ways” rather that the result , ya ek doosre nazariye se dekhein to maine raahon aur raaston ko apni manzil se jyada ahemiyat di hai . The main reason being the people I meet in the journey and the experiences with them have been more illuminating to me rather than the destination itself .

Today I am writing this blog to thank all those people I met in the last three years of ma life and who have in one way or the other contributed in making me ME .When I came to JUIT, sach batoon to duniya ka kuchh bhi nhi pata tha , I used to be a guy with no smile on ma face (waise kuchh log abhi bhi kehte hain)and always tensed for I don’t know what J . I knew that I in some way i was not upto the people around me and then I thought y not learn from them and frankly speaking these 3 years of ma lyf have been the most illuminating .

Sabse pehle Surbhi …..jab isse mila to laga ki hum dono mein se ek to is duniya mein se hai hi nahi . she was full of energy itni zyada ki iska low hona bhi mujhe above normal lagta tha lol. But I learnt a lot from her , the need to express oneself and the right ways to do that ….and a lot ….

When I came to this college I was one of the few who loved it and still loves it . I used to be one of the guys who would never ever lyk to go home and couldn’t fathom the reason y but now I know that the kind of family I was building was always holding me back …

Every blessed memory in JUIT , every argument and every moment for what I have always thanked GOD would have been incomplete without these guys . Inse to maine jeena seekha hai ,……

Andy ,Anuj,Nitin,Srikant,Cena,Attri,Paras,Puneet,Kumar,Gunny,Chandel,Ketan , Dev , Ghartan, Anshul these are some of the people who have always been there whether it be taking care , full on masti , crushes , u name it and these ppl were always there with me …

Anuj Aur Srikant ke saath diya hua 3rd sem was one of ma best xperiences in life .Xams mein TT ball se room pe cricket (yaad hai Red and Black Trees aur Guitar?) aur breaks mein movies dekhna . Andy ke suggestions on whether I should message or call to wish a gal her b’day … Hope u remember dude…

Cena ke jokes, attri aur anshul ki masti aur kumar ki wo lambi lambi ki pakad mein naa aayee lol…kuchh ki aashiqiyan(hope u got the hint) kuchh ke challenges whether it be real life ya CS mein INDIA ka map(yaad hai ghartan ?) yeh sab, kuchh sikha gaye , kuchh bata gaye , aaj bhi hain sab saath aur hamesha rahenge ……

Phir aata hai mera batch , chadha aur shashank se to hasna seekha , lyf mein cool rehna seekha , google to alag hi “insaan “(thoda doubt tha lol) hai. Radhika and Nikita, pallavi and neha are awesome and really out of this world . Now that’s the way cllg lyf is meant to be .

Sharma was also really helpful lol. Sharma , I still appreciate ur quality of taking a stand . May God bless you with whatever you wish …..

Phir aaya IEEE(“aap soch rahein honge yahan bhi IEEE bas yaar rohan “) but this part of ma lyf gave me some of ma best friends and guides . ESHA mam ,Aditya Patel sir ,Utkarsh sir , abhilash sir ,Nikhil sir , kaalu , vaibhav sir , aur poora H-1 ka wo floor jo mera ghar ban gaya tha , inhone bhi bahut sikhaya ….bahut bataya aur sach baatoon to jnke bare mein maine zikra kiya ya karne jaa raha hun in sab ne meri raah apne hi dhang se aasan kar di .

Rohit sir, Gaurav sir jinki kuchh baatein to abhi bhi zehen mein hain aur wo aaj tak yaad aati hain . Badminton court pe matches , Gaurav Sir ke drops to Rohit sir ke smashes, bahut masti kari ,bahut seekha , Gaurav sir ka “nahi na ho paa raha hai “ aaj bhi yaad aata hai ….

Aur kuchh baatein , kuchh suggestions jo aaj bhi nhi bhoolti

“90% of the work is done by 10% of the people in this world”

“Ek researcher ek “,,,,,,,,,”ki tarah hota hai ……………………”

Kuch aisi baatein jinhone zindagi ki taraf mera nazariya hi badal diya …………………

Yeh kuchh anjaane log the jo raah mein mile aur humsafar ban gaye………

Thanku ppl thanx a lot..

Abhi to bahut log hain jo is safar mein mile …….par unka zikra abhi nahi……….

Tuesday, June 1, 2010


What does 15th August or a 26th January mean to an average Indian today?
Its easy , its just another holiday, a day when one can be free from the hassles of the day today scenario.
i will just share a joke with u:
" once an Indian went to Japan with his family . He booked a room in a 5-star and then ordered for a limo to take a drive around the city. As soon as he reached his room everyone ordered for tea , the service was quite late . The Indian went to the reception in fury and shouted at the receptionist . She politely apologized for the delay and the service was done within next 2 min . Incidents like these happened quite often during his trip .
While leaving the Indian asked the receptionist " from where did you learn to be so patient and polite . Is it becoz of the nature of ur job?"
The answer came " I learnt it from a land known INDIA , were are u from sir?"

What i wanted here to show is that though the entire world is accepting our values we ourselves are forgetting it . The reverence towards our culture , our values which were our integral part and what made everyone one of us different from others are now evaporating slowly in thin air.
Just ask urself "Am i proud to be an Indian" and also depending on ur answer enlist some reasons for it .
i am sure that for a negative reply u will get too many reasons but not that many for the positive one . Do u you know the reason why? It is because that is what u see around in news channels , that is what we hear from others , from our parents , from our colleagues, and u know what "that" is ................... its sheer criticism , complaints etc etc.....

I still remember NEWS once used to be informative , we used to learn from news , things going around , things happenings worldwide But now NEWS has a new face its "Entertainment", people now like to hear "masala" .News is getting into people's personal lives and what else can entertain an average Indian than people's personal lives.I still can't remember a day when i heard some good news , something that made me proud of my country except when the indian cricket team wins a match or a series . We dont really understand that there is more to India than just cricket . y is not any other sport not even our national sport given as much importance as cricket . The reason is simple we have commercialized every sector be it education , be it NEWS.
Everyone's talking about India's economic growth nowadays. i feel that the Indian govt has found a new alias for growth and thats economy. where is OUR growth being considered . are "WE" being educated , are "WE" being nurtured .........................
if i ask this question to the govt the reply comes " yes we have formed new IITs and IIMs . what else do u want from us?"
Do we ever realize that these are the institutions of higher education , the % of people getting basic and primary education is still the same . Y are we not working on basic education . Dont u think the amount of money the govt spends in the formation of any one of these institutes could provide basic education to thousands........ I am not saying that the formation of these institutes is wrong or should not be done but these are not the basic concerns of our country .
Basic education is the major concern , our ever growing population is the major concern . China has taken steps to check its population growth and sooner or later we will be overpowering China in this field. why are we not learning from them ??? why not emphasize on the basics first.............
We cant only blame the govt "WE" Choose it . How many of u vote or have voter id . i dont have one and i am ashamed of myself . i have applied for it and will get it soon.
Do u realise that more than 50% of the voters in India are those who don't even have the basic knowledge about politics , who are being driven by some reason to vote for a particular party .

"DEMOCRACY" our greatest strength has beome our greatest weakness.
The preamble to our constitution starts like "WE , THE PEOPLE OF INDIA........."
I would like to end this with a question "Are we still "WE"?

this was what i wrote for a debate "Negativity or positivity what leads to gr8ness":

If I start deciphering the topic as given to us “Negativity or Positivity what leads to greatness”, everthing I look seems abstract or rather relative. The question remains why . Let us start with greatness . “greatness is one word that in today’s scenario , If we talk in layman’s term , is what is perceived by the greater mass of people and nothing in it now relates to the real ability of a person. Lets relate it to our country’s only religion “cricket” , our teams good performance in one series makes our players idolatory and the entourage following them grows exponentially ,but the debacle in the very next series leads to a conviction that its all a lucrative business and thet they are for no good. Due to such flickering attitudes that people have , the word “greatness” has lost its very definition. But this is not what I am here to defend . I am here to speak in favour of “ negativity in life” , how it helps us to achieve where we really want to be , and that is how I define “Greatness”.

The first thought that springs up in any of our minds when we hear the word “negativity” is something detterent , something that inhibits our growth for the better, something that makes life tougher, something that no one would like to have in his or her life .

But the only word that comes to my mind when I hear it is “caution”, something that tells us to think before taking each step ahead , something that makes our results more satisfying , something that in the end helps us feel that whatever tough times I came across in achieving my goal , in the end was fruitful. What makes the difference here is the attitude.

someone said :”Tough times do not long last but tough people do”. What if negativity makes life tough , I do agree it does but how? It just makes you analyse things in a way that you could never have done being an optimist.i know its tough and one has to toil hard but it obliterates the very sense of uncertainity. An optimist usually takes things in an offhand manner not going into the details of things assuming that everything would go gr8 and as according to him . But that is not what the real case is and that is not what happens always. Exceptions are always there , though .If you have faith in what u do , being a part of the pessimist group would definitely help, in accomplishing your faith.

One more thing that comes to ma mind is “contentment” or “complacency” . An opmitst has loads of both these commodities but a pessimist doesn’t and this is what really helps him or her in continuing a trend that leads to perennial growth , something that in today’s scenario is essential for survival,whether it be any industry.

Lets take an example of Mr E.Sridharan , the man behind the continual expansion of the metro across India. Metro could have been built much earlier but is taking its due time because of the negativity in the teams approach . The people working out there are taking their time to analyse each and every ill possibility that might occur and thus overcome them . Thus in this case negativity is helping us build something concrete.

Optimism on the other hand most of the times leads to overconfidence, a characteristic that deteriorates conditions . An optimist’s approach towards a work would be that everything that goes wrong can be rectified , but a pessimists approach would be to analyse things to such an extent that nothing goes wrong………. Its now on you to decide what to prefer rectification or perfection!!!!!!!